Tuesday, 24 December 2013 03:38

Santa's Elf

Best Christmas and New Years Wishes from our House Moms, House Dads, Social Workers, and our Mercy Children. Photos of our Mercy Child by Taryn Wilson.

Thursday, 12 December 2013 01:41

Father's Day at Mercy

To be an orphan on Father’s Day – even at best, it’s pretty tough.

Last week, on Father’s Day, which falls on our King’s birthday, our children expressed their love in song for their King; and the local Abbot and myself led our children in blessings and prayers.  A friend, who understands – who lost  his own son in a car crash –  dropped by with loads of goodies for all our children. Cake and Ice Cream can wipe away lots of tears.  Especially when it’s a surprise! There was much to enjoy and celebrate.

But our children can’t help feeling a little bit lost and even betrayed on a day dedicated to their absent fathers.  They believe, perhaps more than the rest of us, in the sanctity and joy of a loving family.  I bring this up because I want to explain by example the case of young Miss Dao. That's her in the photo below on the far right with her friends at Mercy.

Nong Dao

Nong Dao, now age nine, joined our Mercy family when she was just a toddler.  Her older brothers Dik and Duk joined us a year earlier, but her mom, who was dying of AIDS, wanted to hold on to Dao a little longer, see her take her first steps and hear her say “momma”:  her first words. Mom died at home when Dao was five.  Dao was there, holding her hand when she died.  Her dad had left when mom got sick. 

After her mom died, Dao would visit her grandma on most weekends, and often cried herself to sleep when she came back to Mercy Centre on Sunday evenings. 

Last week grandma died. It’s not easy being a nine-year-old orphan girl. It’s even harder to be a young orphan without even a grandma.  I attended the cremation with Dao, Dik and Duk, as I do whenever our children lose their loved ones.  Miss Dao cried a lot, but one of our house moms overheard her whisper, “don’t worry Granny – I’ll be okay.  I’m a big girl. “

People may think our children have no family or that they are totally uninvolved. The truth is, almost all our children have family somewhere. And because they live apart, there’s often a yearning to return to make things whole. Our children recognize that family time is precious.

We try where we can. We try to make them feel that every day at Mercy is Father’s Day and Mother’s Day and Children’s Day all rolled into one.

Our kids are indomitable, resilient, and full of hope.   

There’s much news to share with you about Mercy. Here are just few notes of recent events:

New Mercy Kindergarten for Sea Gypsies.

 New Kindergarten

We have been teaching kindergarten in Koh Lao, an island village of destitute ethnic Mokan, since 2008. We started by turning a large dilapidated shack on stilts into a classroom, but since the shack was technically on land, we had issues with the landlord.  Also, the shack continuously flooded during high tide.

With support from the Jan & Oscar Foundation and Lloyd George Asia Foundation, plus cooperation from local government, we just completed the construction of a real kindergarten, again on stilts but far enough away from the shoreline that nobody can claim the land.

The new Jan & Oscar Kindergarten officially opened in November.  Over 50 ethnic Mokan children attend daily. It’s a revolution in education. Not one of their parents ever learned to read or write.  None.

 

Rebuilding whole neighborhoods after fires.

Two sweeping fires recently devastated whole neighborhoods in our slums – one in the Pai Sing To community; the other in Rom Klao. Hundreds of families were left homeless.

Thanks to an outpouring of support from our friends, we were able to care for all the fire victims, provide emergency funds and gifts, get the kids back to school with new books and uniforms, raze the dangerous structures still standing, remove the rubble; and build new homes. Friends of Mercy made a huge difference in their lives. Thank you!

Our street kid students learn advanced technology.

Street kids are fearless, even in a classroom: they’re not afraid to learn anything.  If you don’t believe me, please come visit our Janusz Korczak School, a special, informal school for street children, migrant children, and poor children who have no other place to learn, play and make friends. 

A volunteer teacher, Kru Pearl, has been teaching our Korczak kids how to build websites, create their own computer applications, and program computers.  Here’s just one example: an introduction to our Korczak school made by the kids themselves:

http://www.powtoon.com/p/d8WcfEKDU3J/#.Unn7uiWGO7s.gmail

All of this programming seems impossibly difficult to me; but street kids, as I mentioned, aren’t afraid of anything.

Leadership training for the poorest children in the slums.

We took almost 150 neighborhood kids camping last month. These kids are poorer than most other slum kids, and we’ve been sponsoring their education ever since kindergarten. If we didn’t support them, they’d likely be helping their parents collect recyclable garbage on the streets or doing menial work far below the minimum wage.

At leadership camp, these kids learn about life beyond their shack in the slums.

They’re smart, alert, curious and caring. 

Over 50 children we’ve been sponsoring since kindergarten are now enrolled in vocational colleges and universities. One former Mercy child, Miss Wanwisa, is now a doctoral candidate in neuroscience in Atlanta.  

You don’t want to sell any poor kid short. Give them just a gentle nudge, and they can jump over any hurdle.

Finally, as Christmas draws nearer, the energy and excitement in our Mercy Centre surges upward. Please come visit. It’s a beautiful here, and you are always welcome. You are always a part of our Mercy family.

Prayers,

Fr. Joe

Thursday, 31 October 2013 07:23

 

Our social workers are working hand in hand with the Rom Klao community, following the devastating fire that left 400 residents without shelter. Just two weeks after the fire, real progress is being made. This community will become whole again.

Our thanks go out to all our friends for your generous support.

 

Friday, 25 October 2013 05:30

Dear Everyone,

Late in the afternoon this past Saturday a raging fire engulfed the Klong Toey neighborhood known as Rom Klao. Fire and rescue workers were able to save the community from total destruction, but not before 72 homes were leveled, leaving 428 residents, including 98 children, without shelter. Everything the victims owned was destroyed.

Fortunately, no one was seriously injured.

Our own Rom Klao Mercy Kindergarten still stands, amazingly, less than 20 meters from where the flames turned just before the winds changed and the fire went back on itself.

In helping the Rom Klao community become whole again, we are focusing on what we do best. First, since we have 40 years of experience in rebuilding poor communities after fires (and in doing so have built over 10,000 homes) we are helping the community to organize and fight for its rights and needs. In addition, we are providing the essentials in getting adults back to work, children back to school, and all residents back to the regular affairs of their daily lives.

A few examples:

Our social workers have helped all the homeless residents fill out the government paperwork required for compensation and emergency funds.

Since many Rom Klao residents make a living as food vendors, we are furnishing all the items the cooks need to keep selling their goods and earning a daily income.

We are also providing school supplies, shoes, and uniforms for the children plus clothes for all families, and mosquito nets for the homes still standing.

Read more...

Monday, 07 October 2013 02:33

 

Ms Teacher Lady

By Fr. Joe Maier, C.Ss.R.

Bangkok Post, Sunday, Oct. 6, 2013, Spectrum Section

http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/investigation/373209/ms-teacher-lady

There's a quiet revolution stirring amid the ponds of Klong Toey, where students are taught to ask questions and dare to speak out

Let me tell you about an old-time Klong Toey revolutionary: a slum kindergarten teacher. Still going strong in her seventh cycle of years – that makes her more than 72. But don't dare ask her if her beautiful hair is turning slightly grey, even around the edges. No guns, no knives, only pencils and paper and nursery rhymes. You'd say: ''What? A kindergarten teacher revolutionary? You're daft.'' But that's the gig. As long as she can remember, that horrible proverb rattled around in her head – not enough children to tend our water buffalo. Even as a little girl, she told her mum, that's not right. And schoolmarm mum said: ''You're right my daughter, so you change that.”

She's dangerous beyond ''their'' worst fears. ''They'' are the ones who say we need more factories. We have enough schools. An even worse crime, she tells kids it's okay to question what adults say. It's okay for her students to say out loud what they think is right and wrong. And to be praised for the saying of it – not told to hush up. Another part of her crime – believing that every child, especially the girls, must go to school.

She's helplessly and hopelessly in love with teaching. To teach every slum child she meets to count, read and write. How many kids has she taught? At last count a couple years ago, a bunch over 2,000 girls and boys –math, reading, writing, telling nursery rhymes. And she's still teaching today.

Read more...

Wednesday, 18 September 2013 04:11

 

Oriental FANtastic Fundraiser

Dear Friends,

We are a poor community organization, and usually at a loss when it comes to raising funds. It’s no exaggeration: fundraising is not our strength. What we’re best at is in protecting, sheltering, and educating the poorest and most vulnerable children. At fundraising, we struggle and stumble on.

This Saturday is different! With help from friends and family, we are doubly blessed!

Two fundraising events on behalf of our children are happening, one in the morning, the other in the afternoon.

Event #1: The Oriental FANtastic Fundraisier: A 10-KM Walk or Run in Lumpini Park, sponsored by the Mandarin Oriental, Bangkok. Presiding over the event will be Bangkok Governor M.R. Sukhumbhand Paribatra, who will fire the starting pistol at 8am. Following the run, you can enjoy a family fun day in the park plus a luncheon feast prepared by the Mandarin Oriental, Bangkok’s culinary team. For more information, please contact the Mandarin Oriental, Bangkok at 02 659-9000.

Event #2: Classical Music for Mercy: Acclaimed classical pianist Marina Baranova will perform music to move, soothe, and uplift the spirit, all in the name of Mercy. Presiding over the event will be HRH Princess Srirasmi. Time and place: Trinity Hall, St. Joseph Convent School, 3:30. For more information and tickets, please visit ticketmajor.com or call 02 262-3456. Tickets range from 500 to 2,000 baht.

Wait! One more event! In the evening, at 8:30, our Mercy Children’s Thai Classical Orchestra will be performing in front of Central World on behalf of the “1Love Playing for Change Foundation,” with all proceeds going to teach music…and love…and peace to poor children worldwide. Following a full day of fundraisers, our children will be giving back in kind, as best they can.

We invite everyone to join us at any or all of these events! Hope to see you this Saturday!

Kind regards and prayers,

Fr. Joe Maier

Director and Co-founder

Saturday Concert